we are happily married and looking to enhance our love for each other and step outside of our vanilla lives to take the journey into submission together. we have lived a rather quiet existance as the average, middle-aged, professional couple next door. he is 36, 5'11", short brown hair, blue eyes, athletic build, 6". she is 39, shoulder length dark brown hair, brown eyes, curvy, 36D.
we have balanced work and raising a family with moving towards a greener lifestyle that pulls away from the mainstream, consumer-driven vanilla realm. we have become very interested in alternative lifestyles of all sorts, but particularly in exploring our submissive sides in the realm of BDSM.
we both crave serving along side each other and watching each other surrender further into submission. we seek a long term relationship where we can develop as subs and progressively surrender control over time as trust and confidence are established. we are both submissive and have no interest in Dominating one another. we seek a situation that would allow both of us to actively participate and to enjoy taking the submissive journey together.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Willingness to freely discuss and try anything
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.